Tuesday, May 29, 2012

May Update....Problem?

       
      Whew. That was a crazy month. We're now at the end, and thank goodness. May has been awesome but absolutely crazy, both here and at home. We need to first extend some congratulations back stateside. Kendall's brother Kip graduated in the top of his class at the Air Force Academy and will be attending medical school at ETSU this fall. We got to watch the Pentagon live stream of him walking across the stage and shaking the President's hand. It was awesome. Additionally, Kendall's sister Whitney passed the CPA exam and my brother Tucker got home from a month or traveling Russia performing. We have such an awesome and talented family. Also, my best man from our wedding, Jeff, is marrying one of our good friends Julie this weekend. We're thrilled for them.
 
       Admittedly these things come with a little heartbreak. It's weird. I am an out of sight, out of mind person. I'm not a jerk; it is self preservation. Kendall just happens to be a much sweeter and softer person than me, who happens to be unable to detach herself from her wants and needs.... which is a good thing, and one of the many reasons I married her. We miss our friends greatly. It kills us that we were not home with our family to watch Kip cross the stage. I can't believe that I am not going to be there for one of my best buddies weddings. It hurts all the more because we will be home so soon. It's the price we pay for being here. The world moves on whether or not we are there, and it is tough. Still, we have peace about it and send our love and happiness home. Soon we will be there to revel in the excitement and celebrations.

       So, May. May was dances. May was Kendall's field trip to the zoo. May was international day. May was me teaching Harper Lee's To Kill A Mockingbird to a bunch of kids who are speaking English for the first time this year. May was the month that our school performed the play "Into the Woods" which has seriously, almost killed me.

      The zoo here is pretty hilarious. It's actually a pretty good zoo because you can get super close, and see the animals well since the cages are more confined than in America. It's sad for the animals, but the kids really get to see them. Kendall was stressed, because the cages aren't like America either. You can potentially get TOO close, which is bad when you are responsible for 17 five or six year olds. (anecdote - our principal told me a story where the lion and tiger cages were directly next to each other, and the tiger reached over, sliced the lion's neck, and the lion bled to death in its cage.) The other hilarious thing is the types of animals in the zoo. Cats, dogs, squirrels, and raccoons are all viewable.













            We also had international day where our students were encouraged to dress up in the traditional dress of their home country, and then we had kids bring in food. It was amazing. Tasty treats.



















     The play has been dominating my life, and to be honest I was not even that big of a part of it. Our school was (overly) ambitious with the choice of Into the Woods Jr. , which involved students from ages 5-18. We had a huge cast, costumes, and even rented a gym to perform in. I was asking as sound and lights man along with an 8th grader, but it turned out to be a much bigger ordeal than I had planned. FYI....I know (knew) nothing about sound. It turns out that they didn't really need a "sound man" so much as an audio engineer. The place we rented was wired by an insane man. All the sound was mixed. You couldn't turn the monitors on and separate the microphones out, so it gave monstrous feedback. I even got into a bit of a tiff with our director! This was real show biz. However, myself and the music teacher from school had to essentially redo their soundboard. Also, we brought 4 independent sets of wireless microphones that had to be set up and taken down EVERY DAY. I'm sure I could do it in my sleep now. I know, because I still have nightmares about it. We practiced on Saturday nights from 5-9 for the last 2 months, and then everyday last week. Needless to say, the days of school from 8-3, and then practice from 3:30 til 9:30pm did me in. Still, the play was amazing. Sound was great, and the kids had an awesome time. Everyone said it was the best one that the school had ever put on.







     There is more craziness to be had. We know we've been WAY out of the loop lately and apologize. We have a letter going out by email this weekend (for June). We have some super exciting things (not baby things, sorry grandparents...) to announce, but we will be doing it in that letter so keep your eyes peeled for it this weekend. Until then!

Love,
b+k
   
   

Thursday, May 3, 2012

Heyo its May-o

           I Know, I know. It has been a super long time since our last post. We've been fairly busy here, but we are definitely past due. Turkey Times are good. Today is the midterm of fourth quarter, which means that we are officially 7/8 of the way through the year. It's crazy and awesome. We've been here 8 months and 15 days, so it has been 260 days since my feet have touched American soil. It's wild. Kendall and I will be coming home on June the 14th. That is my birthday, so it should be a good time. (Sidenote - Since we are flying back through 8 time zones, I will have a 32 hour birthday. Heck yeah!).

        Since we'll be home in another 6 weeks of so, the cravings have begun. I am generally very out of sight out of mind, and therefore being away is less hard for me than some... but knowing that ending date is making me stir crazy. I have begun massive lists of things I want to do, eat, or see.

Examples:
Friends
Family
Rock and Rollin' with my guitar
Grilling Out
A spicy fish sandwich from Bolton's
Mexican Food
Seeing live music
Chick-Fil-A
Taco Bell (Don't judge me)
McKay's bookstore
Knoxville, TN
Pools
Mexican Food (included twice intentionally)

           There are some things I am nervous about as well. We've heard repeatedly that people panic by the overwhelming amount of choices for everything in America. In turkey, you take what you can get for almost anything. "Oh, they have my favorite kind of pringles? Better buy all 10 cans because they might never be here again." I am kind of nervous about hearing English all the time in public. This sounds stupid, because we teach in English. It's not like I have been deprived of my mother tongue. However, Turkey has one of the lowest English speaking populations in the world. I have probably heard 2 or 3 instances of a non-tourist in Ankara speaking English conversationally in the last year. My brain has created this weird noise filter where I no longer care or hear most anything. I'm so used to tuning out Turkish, or other languages, that waiters are often standing beside me going "merhaba. hosgeldeniz..... MERHABA.....HOSGELDENIZ" for a minute before I realize what is going on. The fact that I will now hear everything is sort of overwhelming to think about. I'm probably going to just space out and listen to people all the time and be creepy. Oh well. As long as I don't break down crying in walmart, overwhelmed by language and the choice between 50 brands of butter, I will consider this summer a success.
             Kendall's class is doing great. They have their letters down, and are now doing compound sounds. A good portion of her class is reading. They found some frog eggs in the park, and now Kendall is the proud mother of 4 tadpoles. Her class takes turns feeding them every few days, and everyone is excited to see some back legs on those little guys. Kendall got a new student, an embassy girl who is Dutch but has been living in Australia. She is unfathomably adorable with her blonde hair cut short, and subtle Aussie accent. I think she will be staying with Kendall next year since they transferred late.

        My classes are moving along nicely. In Algebra we are about to finish the text book. I can't believe we have covered that much stuff in a year. Today I am starting Harper Lee's To Kill A Mockingbird with my upper English classes. I am super excited to be teaching it, but it is crazy how different teaching a book like that is in an international setting. Tomorrow is essentially a history lesson to provide context for the novel. These kids don't know the situation or history in the south. They don't know anything about the American depression. They don't know about jim crow laws, the racial history,   or even how the American justice system necessarily works. So, we're covering that stuff and diving straight into the book after that.
   
         The end of this year is going to be bonkers. Today at the staff meeting our director covered a million things that must be done before we leave. Grades, curriculum guides, tons of performances at school, a sports banquet, senior luau, graduation, housing stuff. Kendall's still coaching soccer, I am helping out with the play (sounds and lights), plus we have one day after school ends to pack and move into a new apartment before we leave Ankara. We're pretty much gonna throw everything into the apartment and fix it up when we come back in August.

       We'll be sending out our May letter this weekend. We skipped April because we were on a much needed vacation for spring break. The letter will have some more specific thoughts and information than this post, so be on the lookout! We love you and miss you all.

b + k


Oh, and here is a first: a dust storm. We had a window open when it started (we were at school) and it covered our apartment. It was nuts. 

Also, we went on a scavenger hunt with some kids for a birthday party. It was really fun and our team won! Here are some pictures from that day.